The sex life of an individual helps to maintain its psycho-physical balance.
For this reason, when we do not live with peace of mind, there are both psychological and physical problems. I want to mention
Alexander Lowen, Bioenergetics of the father, to describe a type of attitude that he calls "sexual sophistication" . Analysis are that go back a few years ago, but I still find it very timely indeed, the means of approach to sexuality taken by many people, these years of experience, I found and I still frequently find items that fit easily defined above in the type of behavior just as "sexual sophistication."
how it differs from the other "sophisticated sexual ? The person sexually sophisticated, in general, know the various sexual techniques, it has had no inhibitions about his erotic life, is passionate about literature and sexy is sexually emancipated, at least in words. These attitudes, in fact, often they are associated with a balanced sexual activity, which, however, stands out in these individuals because marked by anxiety of failure in the "performance" .
In fact, consider as a benefit the expression of one's sexual life mean the have to face a real test, so the whole set of facets that follow the concept of "evidence" such as, for example, fear of failing and not able to meet each other either.
All this, of course, causes the failure of learning to live with natural sexual pleasure, without necessarily being associated with inner feelings and finalize it.
If until not long ago performance anxiety was mainly expressions of man's world, mostly anxiety related to fear of not having to have erections or premature ejaculation, today the same anxiety is increasingly shared by the world of women, emotional state linked to difficulties in reaching orgasm (first considered absolutely normal), or the fear of not being able to fulfill the wishes of their partner.
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